Boundary Setter

Saying no is hard; over-explaining makes it worse. Get three clean phrasings from softest to firmest, plus a reply for when they push back. Your real reason stays private, on your device, and is never quoted back in the script.

What do you need to decline or limit?

The request Why you are declining (private, used only for tone, never quoted)

They are Door

Your phrasings

Three phrasings from softest to firmest, plus a response if they push back, will appear here.

Start soft, but mean it. These phrasings are starting points; adjust them to your voice and to what this relationship can carry, since a small on-device model cannot know your history with the person. A boundary only works if you hold it, so pick the version you can deliver calmly and repeat. Powered by the same private engine as the Browser SLM Lab.